Your son's or daughter's addiction or mental health has become a crisis.
But what do you do about it?

How You Reclaim Peace and Joy In Your Life, Put An End to Enabling, And FINALLY Know What To Start Doing Today That Encourages Your Child's Recovery.

Dear Friend,

The secret sauce is right here.

It's not just about giving advice. It's about giving hope.

Witness real moms using Love Another Way techniques in real-world situations with their son or daughter.


  • Watch them shift the dynamic.
  • Watch them create more peace in their lives.
  • Watch them create an environment to encourage their son or daughter to choose recovery

This Is Your Opportunity To Witness Real Moms Using Cutting-Edge "Love Another Way" Techniques In Real-World Situations With Their Son or Daughter

Don't do it alone. Watch as real students bring their real challenges. I show them (and you) how to Love Another Way.

  • How to prioritize yourself.
  • How to communicate your needs effectively.
  • How to start, right now.

The difference is in the details.

Few people know about the subtle differences…

…the differences that allow our students to actually set and hold truly Transformative Boundaries.

Because it is those Transformative Boundaries that actually create peace in your home and your heart.

It is these special Transformative Boundaries that actually provide the chance for your son or daughter to choose recovery.

We talk about the stuff that nobody is talking about in support groups like Al-Anon and Nar-Anon, books, internet articles or online classes.

(Likely because... they just don’t know it. But I do.

You might think you are alone in this struggle.

But students in my VIP programs are coached by me and my team daily as they wrestle with the challenges of loving someone with an addiction and/or mental illness.

The real-world situations (and real-time advice & encouragement) allow them to move forward with renewed energy, hope & purpose.

There's no easy way to say this.

If you love someone with an addiction or mental illness, life can be hard.

But there is hope. 

I have the most powerful and creative set of tools to put an end to confrontations and endless pleading so that you encourage your loved one to choose recovery for themselves.

  • Imagine if you could set boundaries that didn't feel restrictive or punitive.
  • Imagine if you could hear the “hidden truth”. Truth your son or daughter may not even know how to “say” directly...
  • Imagine being able to say what you need without “blaming, shaming, or accusing”...
  • Imagine having pockets of joy each and every day. Even if your child is still using or in legal trouble.
  • Imagine having important conversations without arguing.
  • Imagine knowing what triggers your child's bad mood.
  • Imagine watching living examples of how other Moms interact with their kiddo.
  • Imagine using new approaches that actually work.

The Tip of the Iceberg

Life with an addicted child is full of subtle nuances. Too subtle for general consumption.

But I can help.

In these recordings, I'll show you how to navigate these 

Subtle Nuances and Strategies

  • When you speak to your child. When you speak to their disease. Know when you’re speaking to each.
  • Use the Boundary-Benefit Evaluation Exercise to prioritize your needs.
  • Communication hacks to cut through the excuses (and other B.S.)
  • Love Taps... and how they can support your child to choose recovery.
  • When different boundaries should be used (and when they shouldn’t)
  • "Recovery Ascension"
  • ...and many more!

I'm not just teaching. I’m helping moms grow their skills; helping them develop into Solution-Oriented Warrior Moms.

You're already so overwhelmed with too much information and advice. Most of it is simple platitudes like "stop enabling" and "don't be codependent."

There's little guidance on what to actually do.

Too much information. Too much advice. And way too little guidance that actually helps.

So I decided to create a different kind of resource.

Which is Why I've Distilled The Very “Best of the Best” Actionable Strategies and Revelations Into Quick, Bite-Sized Videos You Can Watch In Less Time Than Your Favorite TV Show... And Begin Using With Your "Child" As Early As Next Week.

Every day, you worry about your child's addiction.

Until now.

Every Mom who joins starts to experience more peace and joy... while giving their “child” their best shot at choosing recovery for themselves.

Because they learn skills that few possess, and even fewer know how to use with their child, every day.

They gain skills and insights that not only help them feel better, bit by bit, every single day... ...they start seeing differences in their child, as well.

From the comfort of your own home, watch and discover strategies that will work for you.

You've probably read a dozen books or articles on how to deal with the disease.

But This is NOT Another Book or Article or Support Group Touting a Bunch of Concepts, But Very Little Actionable Ideas to Use With Your Loved One. It's Real Moms, Working Through Real Problems and Coming Up With Real Solutions That Work.

Every Sunday, I compile the best of the best from our PRIVATE coaching sessions, inside The Transformative Boundaries Experience.

I used to keep this secret to myself.

But now I'm sharing it with you.

You get a secret link to the compilation, delivered by email to your inbox, each and every week.

You get to see and hear everything I share with my students, as they learn to Love Another Way.

Each video is between 10 - 20 minutes, and chock full of the gems, insights and subtle nuances we use with our loved ones, including our children, each and every day.

Your weekly dose of self love. In service of both you AND your child.

And as you’ll see right away, from the very first video... these private sessions are NO fluff.

For Nancy from Detroit, a phone call with her daughter used to turn into endless blame, manipulation and anger. But after learning how to stop the cycle of blame, things are different now.

For Denise from San Diego, talking to her son about totally different things, completely unrelated to his addiction, was something she never thought she would do. But after watching this video, it became easier than she ever imagined.

For Vanessa from Vancouver, getting a visit from her son was something she never thought would happen. But after saying one thing she learned, this holiday was different than any other.

No fancy slides. No posturing or sugar-coating.

I don’t care about that stuff when I’m coaching my students.

Nor do I care about making these recordings “flashy” or fancy.

I care about one thing, and one thing only:

THE SUBSTANCE.

Giving my students the best, most actionable ideas and strategies they can use right away to bring more joy and peace into their day.
Always honest.

Like the best way to respond the next time your son or daughter asks for a ride, so you don’t end up ruining your entire day waiting or running around endlessly.

Or what to do the next time you and your partner (or someone else you love) disagree on how to handle a crisis…

…so you don't end up giving mixed messages to your child, that keep them rooted in their addiction.

So I pull no punches…

Each Episode Chock Full of Real-World, Actionable Ideas, You Can Start Using From Minute One

Your life is about to change.

  • The way you relate to your son or daughter.
  • The way you relate to your other children.
  • The way you relate to your spouse or partner.
  • The way you relate to your friends and extended family.

Imagine this.

Sitting personally with me and my students, absorbing the same insights and information that they have.

It’s why many clinicians have joined our programs; so they can soak up every morsel of guidance in these recordings too, and use what they learn in their own practice and, often, in their own lives.

It's time to Love Another Way.

This is a safe, non-judgement and completely confidential space, to benefit from life-changing Love Another Way strategies and methods like so many other Moms.

Starting today, right now...

You’ll enjoy access to the true Love Another Way methods NOT shared by any other expert or coach.

  • Addiction is baffling. You might as well be speaking Greek.
  • You’ll develop an Addiction IQ so that you better understand the disease of addiction.
  • You’ll see things more clearly, in new ways, so you understand bewildering behavior like how your loved one is not actually able to see what he or she is doing to themselves... and know exactly how to deal with it.
  • And you’ll most certainly gain the skills and confidence to Love Another Way, and begin to break the chains addiction has wrapped around you and your family.

Before you jump in with both feet, people often ask me...

How Is Loving Another Way Better Than Al-Anon, Nar-Anon, Other Groups?

I won’t claim one solution is better than another.

I know many people who have found comfort in attending those group meetings. And I know countless more who left these meetings frustrated, without knowing what to actually do in their own lives to shift things.

But that’s where we come in.

The Love Another Way Framework is the secret sauce that compounds and multiplies the effects of everything else you're doing.

Love Another Way is agnostic in its approach; open to people of all faiths, religions and spiritual traditions, including those who identify as atheist or agnostic.

You can be visiting support groups regularly, infrequently, or not at all.
You can be in session with a therapist, or not.
You can subscribe to all the other newsletters and read all the blog articles, or not.

The Love Another Way Framework (and the subtle distinctions I share on our coaching sessions) will allow you to get even MORE out of those resources, should you choose.

But you don't have to.

In Love Another Way, you don't ever have to do anything you don't want to do.

It always comes back to you.

It’s about thinking deeply about what matters most.

And then it’s time to set about making our dreams reality.

I know you'd love to have certainty about how to deal with your child's behavior every time they 

  • Call, text or email.
  • Threaten.
  • Ask for something you're not willing or able to give them.
  • Blame you or the world for their problems.

It's time to say "Yes" to something that will transform your relationship with your child.

It's time to say "Yes" to something that will help you see your child for who they really are.

It's time to say "Yes" to something that will allow you to see beyond this horrible disease.

It's time to say "Yes" today and give Love Another Way Weekly Insights a try for the next 30 days.

There's hope.

There's peace.

There's change, the real change that happens when you're able to speak to your child rather than the addiction.

You're either empowered to deal with your son or daughter's behavior confidently... ...or I'll cancel your subscription immediately, and you won't be billed again.

Love another way.

Because this is the time for any mother who wants to experience more peace, joy and a relationship where they can talk to their child (and not the addiction) to take decisive action…

Claim Your Access to My ‘Love Another Way’ Weekly Insights Now!

ONLY $49 (billed monthly, cancel anytime)

YES! SEND ME THE FIRST EPISODE OF WEEKLY INSIGHTS.

Act now!

Barbara is prepping the next ‘Love Another Way’ Weekly Insights training, which is just days away. You don’t want to miss it. 

Find a pocket of joy today - you deserve it!

Barbara (prayer hands)

P.S. You’ve seen my workshop. You’ve read my emails. You know that I tell it like it is - because that’s the only way to win over the monster that is addiction.

Imagine what I do... and show... and share... with my students, behind closed doors, when the lives of our loved ones are truly on the line.

Now... you’ll see it all.

Trust me. 

You're going to love having the recordings of my internal coaching sessions every week.

You're also going to find the candor and raw actionable insights refreshing and energizing...

Because for the first time ever, you're finally getting the real-deal stuff, shared behind the scenes, with an expert who has been through the fire and come out the other side...

...and who has committed to helping as many moms as possible to do the same.

The next one is just days away.

Claim Your Access to My
‘Love Another Way’ Weekly Insights Now!

ONLY $49

(billed monthly, cancel anytime)

Act now! Barbara is prepping the next ‘Love Another Way’ Weekly Insights training, which is just days away.  You don’t want to miss it.