“Nothing like what therapists, clinicians or support groups share…”

BELOW: See What Barbara Decker is Privately Teaching Her Students This Week…

From the desk of Barbara Decker
Orefield, Pennsylvania


Dear Friend,

If you’ve ever wondered what tools & techniques Solution-Oriented Warrior Moms are talking about, those that allow them to shift the dynamic of addiction and create more peace in their life…

...while simultaneously creating an environment that encourages their children to choose recovery…

This is your rare opportunity to see and hear what I’m PRIVATELY showing and teaching my students, right now and every week going forward, about…

How to Reclaim Peace & Joy In Your Life, Put An End to Enabling, And FINALLY Know What You Can Do (Starting Today) To Encourage Your Child’s Recovery!

This is, obviously, a priceless opportunity.

Because I’m not talking about another book or article or support group designed for public consumption.

No. This is all PRIVATE. For my students only.

And, right now, your rare opportunity to come behind closed doors with us, with my ‘Love Another Way’ Weekly Insights.

You’ll witness me detailing the nuances of how to Love Another Way for my students; how to prioritize oneself; how to communicate your needs effectively to your loved ones. Right now.

You’ll watch and listen to me laying out the subtle differences… which few people know... about identifying, prioritizing, setting, and holding truly Transformative Boundaries…

And anything else which I feel is wildly valuable for my students to see and understand as they navigate this difficult journey.

The stuff that nobody is talking about in support groups like Al-Anon and Nar-Anon, books, Internet articles or online classes.

(Likely because… they just don’t know it. But I do. And, of course, I’m sharing it with my students.)

Here's the deal:

When people join The Transformative Boundaries Experience… and when they continue on in The Transformative Boundaries Community… my team and I are there, daily, supporting moms (and some dads) with the challenges of loving an addict.

The real-world situations (and real-time advice & encouragement) allow them to move forward in their own experience with renewed energy, hope & purpose.

I’m guiding them on how and when to use...

The Most Powerful Tools I Know To Create Peace And Encourage Recovery!

Of course, this includes the little-known, and even less understood nuances of how to identify, set, communicate and hold what I call “Transformative Boundaries.”

Powerful strategies and approaches like…

  • How to hear the “hidden truth” in your child’s words and actions (the ones they may not even know how to “say” directly)...
  • The subtleties of communicating with your child, so you can say what you need to say without “blaming, shaming, or accusing”...
  • How to carve out “Pockets of Joy” each and every day, even if your child is still using or dealing with legal trouble…
  • How to choose the right time and place to have important conversations with your child…
  • Simple ways to “balance your energy” before, during and after any interaction with your child, so you can remain true to yourself while avoiding “tone triggers” that could set your child off...
  • Living examples of how other Moms (and the occasional Dad) are interacting with their children (so you can be inspired with new ideas and approaches)...

And these foundational strategies are just the tip of the iceberg….

You’ll also listen in as I show my students how to navigate the nuances of life with an addicted child…

...the stuff far too subtle and sophisticated to be published for “general consumption.”

Subtle Nuances & Strategies, Like…

  • Know when you’re speaking to your child and when you’re speaking to their disease…
  • Use the Boundary-Benefit Evaluation Exercise™ to prioritize your needs…
  • Communication hacks to cut through the excuses (and other B.S.)...
  • Love Taps… and how they can support your child to choose recovery…
  • When different boundaries should be used (and when they shouldn’t)...
  • “Recovery Ascension”...
  • ...and many more!

And I’m not just “teaching” my students conceptually…

I’m helping them grow their skills; developing them into Solution-Oriented Warrior Moms (and Dads).

And This Is Your Chance To “Eavesdrop” On Everything I’m Sharing!

And have me develop you into a Solution-Oriented Warrior, as well!

Again, you’ll get access “behind the velvet rope” and hear the same advice and strategies I’m giving my students… every week.

The best of the best. 

And if you apply just a fraction of what you learn…

You’ll not only start to experience more peace and joy in your everyday life… you’ll be giving your child their best shot at choosing recovery for themselves.

Because just like I’m giving my students, you’ll possess skills that few possess, and even fewer know how to use with their child, every day. 

You’ll gain skills and insights that not only help you feel better, bit by bit, every single day…

...you’ll start seeing differences in your child, as well.

Here’s How You’ll Get It All…

Every Sunday,  I’ll compile the best of the best from our PRIVATE coaching sessions, inside The Transformative Boundaries Experience.

The recordings will be edited to protect the privacy of my students (names, faces and voices may be hidden)...

And you’ll get a secret link to the compilation, delivered by email to your inbox, each and every week.

You’ll get to see and hear everything I share with my students, as they learn to Love Another Way.

Watch this 13 min segment to experience a small sample of our weekly sessions.

Each video will run between 10 - 20 minutes, and is comprised of the gems, insights and subtle nuances we use with our loved ones, including our children, each and every day.

Consider it your weekly dose of self love… in service of both you AND your child.

And you’ll see right away, from the very first video… these private sessions are NO fluff.

No fancy slides… no posturing or sugar-coating…

I don’t care about that stuff when I’m coaching my students.

Nor do I care about making these recordings “flashy” or fancy.

I care about one thing, and one thing only:

THE SUBSTANCE. Giving my students the best, most actionable ideas and strategies they can use right away to bring more joy and peace into their day.

So I pull no punches…

You’ll see right away… these training sessions are…

Chock Full of Real-World, Actionable Ideas, You Can Start Using From Minute One!

And these coaching calls are why, today, so many moms are experiencing massive shifts in their relationship with the most important people in their life:

  • Their addicted son or daughter
  • Their other, non-addicted children
  • Their spouse or partner
  • Their friends and extended family

It’s also why many clinicians have joined our programs; so they can soak up every morsel of guidance in these recordings too, and use what they learn in their own practice.

And this is your opportunity to come behind the velvet rope with us and get access to the same insights and information.

Fact is:

If you don’t already recognize how quickly this will upgrade your “Addiction IQ”... as well as give you new ways of relating to your child… this is NOT for you…

And you can stop reading and move on.

If, on the other hand, you do recognize the enormous opportunity here in getting these recordings, each and every week, then…

Your Time to Love Another Way Starts Right Now...

This is a rare opportunity for you to profit from the same life-changing Love Another Way strategies and methods I’m PRIVATELY showing and teaching my students right now and every week going forward.

Starting today, right now…

  • You’ll enjoy access to the true insider Love Another Way methods NOT shared publicly by any other expert or coach.
  • You’ll develop an Addiction IQ that will allow you to understand the disease of addiction in new ways, previously unimagined. (Many lifelong clinicians don’t even understand this.)
  • And you’ll most certainly gain the skills and confidence to Love Another Way and begin to break the chains addiction has wrapped around you and your family.

Before you jump in with both feet, people often ask me...

How Is Loving Another Way Better Than Al-Anon, Nar-Anon, Therapy or Other Similar Support Options?

I won’t claim one solution is better than another.

I know many people who have found comfort in attending those group meetings.  And I know countless more who were frustrated by the lack of intentional action that resulted from attending.

We each need different things; are at different stages in our journey with addiction; have different means of getting and integrating the support we need.

Having a resource like the Love Another Way Framework compounds and exponentially multiplies the effects of the other work you may be doing.

That’s because Love Another Way is agnostic in its approach.

You can be visiting support groups regularly, infrequently, or not at all.

You can be in session with a therapist, or not.

You can subscribe to all the other newsletters and read all the blog articles, or not.

The Love Another Way Framework (and the subtle distinctions I share on our coaching sessions) will allow you to get even MORE out of those resources, should you choose.

It always comes back to you and the experience you wish to create.

It’s about thinking deeply about what matters most.

And then it’s time to set about and make our dreams reality. 

Now it’s time to act…

Claim Your Access to My
‘Love Another Way’ Weekly Insights Now!

A $397 Value For
ONLY $49

(billed monthly, cancel anytime)

Act now! Barbara is prepping the next ‘Love Another Way’ Weekly Insights training, which is just days away.  You don’t want to miss it.

Enjoy,

Barbara 🙏

P.S. You’re here because you want to learn a new way to love your child, that breaks the cycle of addiction, puts an end to enabling and codependency, and gives your beautiful child their best chance to choose recovery.

If you’ve seen my workshop and read my emails, you know that I tell it like it is - because that’s the only way to win over the monster that is addiction.

Imagine what I do… and show… and share… with my students, behind closed doors, when the lives of our loved ones are truly on the line.

Now… you’ll see it all.

And I have zero doubt, you’re not only going to appreciate having the recordings of my internal coaching sessions every week…

You're also going to find the candor and raw actionable insights refreshing and energizing…

Because for the first time ever, you’re finally getting the real-deal stuff, shared behind the scenes, with an expert who has been through the fire and come out the other side…

...and who has committed to helping as many moms as possible to do the same.

But, you want to sign-up now, so you don’t miss out on even one of our Weekly Insight videos.

The next one is just days away.

A $397 Value For
ONLY $49

(billed monthly, cancel anytime)

Act now! Barbara is prepping the next ‘Love Another Way’ Weekly Insights training, which is just days away.  You don’t want to miss it.